A most dear friend died last night after years of pain and suffering. He will be missed.
We knew Joe Rivera as Jose
Arguelles and jokingly called him
Pepito. As a very large man of great girth and strength he was equally warm and generous as well as mysterious.
He loved
Fugazi, played percussion, drew, recorded and edited sound and video and practiced the martial arts. He styled himself as a revolutionary and had great compassion for people. He was a strong advocate for
Puerto Rican independence and studied socialism in
depth.
As a student at the City University of New York our paths met and we struggled together in the fight to preserve what was left of the historic mission of that institution and became great friends.
This man of gargantuan strength was my sparring partner for a couple of years. He studied and gained rank in
Capoeira and held a
dan in
Aikido. Realizing our combined studies in Japanese martial arts left our punching technique lacking, we studied Wing Chung together and preceded to knock each other senseless for several months.
This constant struggle to grapple and gain an advantage over an opponent says much about Joe and his life. He struggled at school, struggled on the streets, struggled with personal relationships, struggled with politics and his own health.
Against the odds and the prognosis of death in six months, he beat back cancer with organic remedies and exercise and tried to remain healthy. His control over his weight however became a larger issue. After a hip and back injury his mobility became limited. We soon saw less of him at political meetings, social events and at work. He soon lost control of his weight and his back problems intensified to the point where he herniated several discs which caused more health issues.
Riddled with pain and his movements nearly all but restricted, he rarely left home. An infection set in on his leg that would not heal. On Friday this infection took away the last breath that fueled his
ki and stopped the heart we knew as a a tremendous and cherished soul.